My Dating Blog

Until two years back, I had never taken life seriously, I had everything I wanted in life. At 23, I was a successful investment banker, financially as well as career-wise I was very successful, I had a great friend circle, was a member of several charitable societies and had recently been dating some very gorgeous women. You can say life was perfect for me! Two of my favorite hobbies included Hiking and Para-Gliding, but when life suddenly took a turn for the worst, everything changed overnight for me.

One night, heading home after drinking at a friends party, I had a major car accident. It was so severe that I spent twp days unconscious. When I woke up on the third day my world was upside down. Doctors informed me that to save my life, my right leg had to be amputated.

At first, I couldn’t understand what was happening around me. It took quite a long time before I accepted the fact that my life would be different from here on out. I was angry at everything and everyone around me. I didn’t know how else to react, my life was so perfect and now, I felt as if fate had kicked me from my throne.

Even though my colleagues and friends were very supportive, I felt like shutting myself away from everyone. I even took a sabbatical break which was difficult as I had always been somewhat of a workaholic.

I would wallow for hours reading and surfing the net and finally, one day, while browsing I stumbled upon a free online dating service exclusively for the physically disabled! I was aware of free online dating services in the past, and had even given it a shot a few times in the past. I think it’s a great medium for anyone looking to meet interesting people. But a free online dating service for the handicapped is something I had never heard of. I was surprised to see such astounding member numbers on the free online dating service. I spent some time visiting a few profiles which looked interesting and sent off a few messages to anyone I felt might be a good match, I wasn’t sure if I was interested in a relationship or friendship, but I was hoping to find something.

I created a profile hoping to meet some new people, and ask for advice regarding coping with my disability. I chatted with a couple of other online members on the first day, and it helped me to feel better. For the next few days I was a regular to the free online dating service and I noticed one girl named Jessica was often on the same time as I was. Through chat, we gradually became friends. We could relate to each other. Jessica, just like myself, had lost her legs in an accident. But I was amazed to find her so cheerful through her talks as if nothing had happened.

It’s been two months since I met her on the free online dating service and thanks to her only today, I feel better about life. I can’t say for certain that I know what she thinks of me, but I know my life would be better with her in it.

In the end, I guess losing my leg was bittersweet, my life is forever different, but ive met a great girl through an free online dating service.

Life is not easy-going, I know it, but I’m a kind of happy-go-lucky man and prefer to accept whatever comes my way. However, I’m never scared of facing challenges. Be it my educational or professional career or any other personal matter like selecting friends and soulmate, life has taught me a lot and my experiences have been added to my expertise. Well, like the tennis court and my office, I’m very frequent to the dating Websites. I love tennis as it is my favourite game for physical fitness, and dating online, I feel, is the perfect way to relax after a hectic day in the office. However, my contribution to the dating websites has brought me luck in the form of Chelsia, my girlfriend.

I have been participating in most of the top dating websites since past four years. You may call me a dating-addict, but the addiction has taught me some good lessons. I met different kinds of people- good, bad and grey- who helped me know the world better. All thanks to dating websites. In my four years of dating experience, I met a good number of girls, both online and offline, before meeting Chelsia. The dating Websites give a good deal of provision to meet people from all over the world in different levels of chatting like online chatting, voice chat and video chat. Earlier, I used to hesitate a bit, but then it was online conversation and I could participate in any type of conversation with women.

After some days of online conversation with the girls on the dating websites, I used to meet them physically if they are from my city. But, Chelsia belongs to a distance town, some 8hours fly from my place. My busy schedules of job would never allow me to visit to that place and in fact, I didn’t want to spend a fortune to meet a girl who I know through dating Websites. Fortunately, there was a twist in my life and I was assigned a new project by our company for the unit that has newly opened in the same town where Chelsia lives. Though, Chelsia and I were barely talking for last few months, I didn’t have to burn the midnight lamps to find her out as there were dating websites.

As soon as I get into my room after I joining the new office, I hopped into the bed carrying my laptop and typed the names of those dating sites I was familiar with. And, finally I found her out on one of those dating sites. I started some simple conversation, and she could recall me even after a long gap. After talking to her for some days when I asked her to meet on Sunday in a café she readily agreed. The eventful Sunday was a really memorable day of my life. She was amazing! And I was in love………. It is as simple as this. We started dating each other and we are getting stronger with our relationship.

It is possible just because of the dating websites; I have started living a new life with Chelsia.

One of my favorite things to do while I’m in free online dating sites is definitely to talk about bowling. Bowling, I think, has the potential to make any date, (even a lame one) very fun. I should be clearer though, I don’t mean bringing your date to your Thursday team practice… Another thing I like to do while I’m in online dating sites is rent a bunch of old classics and have a movie night, but of course, there has to be popcorn, what kind of movie night doesn’t have popcorn!?

Sometimes, I find it interesting to think about how many people I’ve actually met in just two years in free online dating sites. A lot of good dates, and definitely a lot of bad ones…funny, but bad none the less. I’ve been in the free online dating sites for about two years now. In this time, I’ve met a tonne of great people, and not only other people who are in free online dating sites, but people who are literally from around the country. I used to go to the bars a lot to meet people, sure its fun to get out there, have some drinks, get on the dance floor and party it up, but it ended up getting really tiring. I found myself spending more money per night than I should have been, and my health was deteriorating faster than you can say liver failure. I must say, free online dating sites are awesome, kind of hard to quit come to think of it.

My interest is a pointer for all the guys out there that are in online dating sites and don’t know what how to get started to win over that special lady friend of theirs. And for all the women out there who aren’t sure what to rent for us gents, pretty much anything that hasn’t been deemed “a chick flick” will suffice.

Free online dating Canada is a fantastic ways of meeting people. So I’ll admit, I turned a blind eye to my own philosophy, which is that if love can’t be found in person, then it can not be found. After searching for barely 45 minutes, I had engaged in conversation with this gorgeous woman who was not only smoking hot, but incredibly intelligent. Anyways, I’ll skip ahead here, I had a date with this woman, and I absolutely adore her, it turns out she lived only one town over. Thanks to Free online dating Canada, I would have never even met her had it not been there for my help.

Dating is a game of confidence, tricks and smart-work. If you aren’t confident, you will more than likely have a hard time coming out on top. It’s a real challenge for people to win the confidence of another person and find the right one. However, I can say dating is a fun, specifically when you are dating through free online chat, especially when you find that one person that you really connect with on a higher level. In a free online chat you can really open up and be yourself, and if the other person is right for you, the two of you will have a lot in common. But dating via free online chat isn’t that simple as most of us have found out, it takes time, skill, practice, and a lot of bad dates before actually meeting someone interesting.

The key to enjoy free online chat is to get out there, meet people, socialize, be friendly and have fun. Free online chat is all about people, no need to worry about the whole ordeal. Its about meeting someone right for you, and you cant do that unless your out there.

Some general conversation is a great way to kick start a simple social relationship with someone and pave the foundation for dating through free online chat. When you meet someone new in free online chat, talk about something exciting like your recent sky-diving venture, or how you went river rafting and had to single handedly save the whole team when they all fell into the water or whatever else you enjoy doing when not in a free online chat. Free online chat, I feel it, sticks to the same rule all over the world, just be yourself, don’t panic, be friendly, and listen to what other people are saying! If all else fails while you can concoct some quick elaborate scheme and get the heck out of there.

Just remember that free online chat is a fun and you are out there to enjoy……

Ill take you through some of the events that went down with this girl I met on online dating sites. Her name is Sherene….. We met on one of the free online dating sites about 3 weeks prior to the actual physical date, and had been messaging each other frequently. We finally decided we’d take it to the next level and go do something fun.

On that day, I picked her up around seven at her place, she wasn’t ready…but really, who didn’t see that coming? Until she was ready, we made small talk about how neither of us had really tried online dating sites before, so this was a new experience for both of us. As we left her place, I looked down and happened to notice I had a shirt wiener… now for anyone who doesn’t know what that is, its when the bottom ends of your shirt are pulled through your open fly giving the impression that your wiener is made of fabric. What a great way to start my night with this girl I met on online dating sites. We both had a laugh, got into my truck and went to this awesome pizzeria not far from her place. What better way to ease into our first non online date.

Anyways, we ordered the food, and no sooner did we start eating, I drop my pizza, toppings side down, onto the floor. Heaven forbid… We snickered a bit more, ate our food and decided to go get a few drinks to end this date night. We pull into a nice little local pub, order some wine and a few beers, and everything seems to be going great. Until it happened, I swear, the waitress had it out for me. As she brought us the appy’s we ordered, she “accidentally” dumped them onto my lap… I jump, bumping the table, spilling the wine on my date, and making a large embarrassing scene. I paid, we left, and I feel our experience on online dating sites was better.

It seemed like the forces of nature were conspiring against me, doing everything they could to prevent me from ever seeing this girl again. So I get home from this totally catastrophic date the other night with this girl I met on online dating sites. However, we both were still laughing at the end of the night. I think we’ll stick with online dating sites at least until we are ready for another not online dating night of hilarity.

Getting into dating scenes after a happily married life of several years is somewhat near to impossible, but I want to, and I don’t think there is any better idea that being in adult dating sites. I can’t exactly say that I’m new to these adult dating sites, but before some days while watching the 6’oclock news at night they made mention of an adult dating site that is turning up some fantastic results, so I figured, heck! Why not! So that night I made the decision to get on line and start dating. Man alive! Was it easy, I don’t want to over exaggerate or anything here, but I’m a 42 year old with little computering experience, and I found it tremendously to have step by step directions to creating an account and begin searching. Well, 4 days later and I’m a wiz. If I hadn’t known any better, I’d assume that I spent my life on line dating. I can search for users, write blogs, check out profiles, and customize my own on line dating profile now with ease!

I’m not really searching for anything serious, I just want to ease myself back into dating. I hope adult dating sites will be that path that I follow to ease myself in. I’ve sent a few messages through the adult dating sites, and am hoping to get some replies by tonight. It’s exciting to be apart of this big community that is constantly interacting with each other. I’m very excited about this whole experience and hope it all works out well for me, though, im sure it will. Apparently adult dating sites turn up excellent results.

Update: Tonight I got replies to all three messages I sent. I’ve been talking with this one beautiful woman and she sounds excited to get off of the on line dating site and go on a real date with me!